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An endangered species?
Published on March 21, 2005 By dynamaso In Misc
“…Common sense is nothing more than the voices of the thousands and thousands of ghosts of our past.”

I have paraphrased this from Robert Pirsig’s book ‘Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance’. If this is indeed the case, then it appears a lot of people either no longer believe in ghosts or have some how become deaf to these voices. Common sense, along with personal responsibility, good manners and even grace under pressure all appear to be rare and perhaps even endangered characteristics these days. But why has this happened? Is it the desperate struggle to accumulate material possessions or the struggle to maintain sanity in the face of a seemingly endless barrage of temptations? Is it because we live in large, crowded and noisy cities because this is where the work we do can be found? Is it because television provides an endless supply of programming featuring egocentric people getting away with the sort of things our parents would have been horrified about?

I don’t have any answers, just a lot more questions. Some will come back here and undoubtedly say it is ‘the erosion of Christian values’, to which I will say right off the bat – don’t bother. I don’t believe this to be the case. If it were the case, then Australia would have a lot more problems than we do as we have a large multi-cultural, multi-religious population. I don’t doubt the problem is complex. I have a healthy layman’s interest in Sociology and a small understanding of how this affects humanity. I also believe I can still hear the 'ghosts' from my past, therefore I do have a modicum of common sense about the things I do and the way I live my life. I’m just hoping some else out there might give me some insight. Anyone?


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on Mar 23, 2005
Hey BlueDev, thanks for adding to the information. It is amazing how much the story is twisted around by the world's media. But as you point out, it was "dumb on both sides". Incidentally, the very thought of 2nd and 3rd degree burns to the perineum made me cringe. How much would that hurt? Thanks again mate, and I wish you and your family all the best for Easter.

radation of society can be laid at the feet of countless well meaning parents who encouraged their children to go to law school


But you also raise an interesting point. I've heard of companies that are basically too scared to do anything to help anyone for fear of litigation if their attempts fail. it really is a sad indictment on the world. What's next? Charities being sued for not providing help soon enough? Scary, isn't it?
on Mar 24, 2005
There are so many instances of common sense being abandoned in favour of large amounts of cash


I think you may be on to something right there. "show me the money" is what seems to turn the world.That and liability and job security and....and...

I don't know ~shrug~

Great article!! Man oh man I hope you write an article about gumption traps! That part of the book nailed down so much for me....
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on Mar 26, 2005
Hey Shovel, is it game-show culture, where the general population thinks they deserve something for very little? Its hard to pin it down on one thing, though. Like you say, 'I don't know'... As for gumption traps, there are things brewing about this and I intend to write something about this shortly.
on Mar 29, 2005
I hate to say it but "the system" somewhat encourages it because it encourages selfishness.
on Mar 29, 2005
Champas, so true. If I think about this too much, I feel sad. It is not the way I want to see the world going.
on Mar 31, 2005
My little slant on the situation is that people are driven more by fear than anything else. We're living in larger cities, surrounded by many, many more people than ever before, yet we're more isolated and disconnected. Without a feeling of community - that feeling that if you drop the ball, someone will be around to help you pick it up, or even do it for you - the only thing that we can focus on to guarantee some form of safety is ourselves. If I don't look after me, who will?

Our relationships don't last as long, family is that inconvenience on Christmas and whilst we have friends, they are also concerned about looking after themselves. It's not a very nice picture, is it?

Now, this isn't my view of the world. I think the only thing that you can have as a certainty is that nothing is permanent. I'm more of a carpe diem kinda gal. But I know a lot of people who rely so much on their own self reliance for piece of mind and comfort that they find it hard to see beyond themselves.

Anyway - it's early and I may not be talking sense. Great article Maso!

Suz xxx
on Mar 31, 2005
Suz, you hit the nail right on the head. Have an insightful. I've been putting together something half-arsed in my head along these lines for a while. The use of fear to control and contain the masses is not a new idea and without wanting to open a can of worms, I believe Mike Moore touched on this in Bowling For Columbine. I've had this in the back of my mind since seeing the movie and I've been concerned to see some sections of Australian mainstream media using this technique more and more.

The Australian government is no less guilty. Posters on buses asking people to be on the lookout for 'terrorist behaviour' are raising collective paranoia levels to an all-time high. This paranoia isolates far too many individuals and debilitates societies. Like you, I work hard at not having this view of the world either. Communities do exist, even in large cities. It is just they're viewed as a eccentricity rather than a standard, which is really quite sad, when you think about it.

Thanks again for your input, Suz. I'd love to hear your take on how London is doing from this perspective. Send me an email, girl. My addresses are on my home page.

Cheers,

Maso
on Apr 01, 2005
I will respond to this properly, I promise, but for now I think you should know that I GOT FLOOR TICKETS TO BECK!!!!!!!!

Just another happy reminder of how kick arse it is living over here....
on Apr 01, 2005
Argghh, yeah thanks for letting me know. I'm waiting to see if he will tour his new album out here. His show at the Hordern (I've got a signed poster on my wall from that show) was awesome. Have you heard his new album yet? It absolutely rocks and has to be my most favourite release of the last 6 months.

I saw Gomez last weekend at a new festival on Cockatoo Island (just in case you don't know, it is a large island in Sydney Harbour, between the Harbour Bridge and the Gladesville Bridge. It was open to the public for the festival for the first time in 70 years or so and was brilliant). It was a 3 day event, but we only went on the Saturday. Saw lots of different music, with Gomez being the big highlight. The other kick-arse performance was from Mick Hart (don't know if you've heard of him or not). It was a fantastic day.

on Apr 01, 2005
*drool*

Mick Hart???? I am so sad that I left my Mick Hart CD's with a friend back home. I have been wanting to listen to Butterfly for too long! He actually wrote a song for the fiance of a friend of mine who died. The name of the song is escaping me now... I've never seen Gomez, which is a shame and something that I need to recitfy. I have never heard a bad review of them.

I saw Doves the other night, who were amazing. And went to the Chemical Brothers the weekend before Easter (my poor brain is only just recovering). Got Nine Inch Nails tickets for July and am way too over excited already. Getting back to Oz and having to pay a fortune to see people again is going to kill me.

Oh dear - I have spent too much time on the computer already and it's not even 9am. Crap! best be off to have a shower and pay some attention to my nephew.

Take care,

Suz xxx

P.S. SIGNED POSTER? BASTARD!
on Apr 01, 2005
Now... the little one's asleep and I will get off the trivialities and back on topic.

It's an interesting question that you pose about collective paranoia. Just after that Spanish train crash there was a high level of concern about terrorism in London. Many people chose to change the route they took to work in order to avoid certain possible danger zones. For example, the Picadilly Line on the tube is one of the major commuting lines. Some of the stops include Convent Garden, Leicester Square and Picadilly Circus, yet is also goes all the way through to Heathrow. It is also very, very far underground. If you are silly like me and choose to take the steps rather than the elevator at Convent Garden you will find that there are 192 in total. I believe that makes it about 12 stories underground. If a bomb were to go off on a train on this line there is really no possible way that you would survive. Due to the close proximity of other tube lines which are much closer to the surface, many people choose to travel on these instead. There was large public debate about the possible implementation of identity cards (even though no one could really explain how these were going to reduce the chance of terrorism). I live a street back from the Thames and see policemen - in cars, on horses or on foot - on a daily basis, patrolling the banks. Every few weeks an army helicopter can be seen and heard hovering over the river, search lights roaming about. Apparently this is because our area is about the right proximity from Heathrow to bomb a plane, or something, and cause the most amount of damage. But this is just hearsay - I'm not really properly informed.

But have I noticed much hysteria myself? Not really. Many people in London act pretty disaffected anyway - the good old English 'stiff upper lip' coping mechanism, so you don't tend to have as many people up in arms about issues as you find in Oz. My view is that if I'm in the wrong place at the wrong time then my number's up and there's not a lot I can do about it. For me, the worst effect terrorism can have is making people change their lifestyles, clouding their lives in fear and making them second guess everything. By just getting on with things (without being too lax) I think we are doing our best to combat and threat - real or perceived.

I know a family that lost their son in the Bali bombing and they have shown the most amazing amount of compassion and understanding - more than you'd expect anyone to have. They are terribly upset about their loss, but they know that they could have lost him to any other number of senseless deaths. You will always ask the question 'Why?' when someone dies, and when it is a result of terrorism it makes it so much harder not to turn your grief into debilitating anger. They have come to accept that he's gone and that the only way that they can honor his death is by living their lives as fully as possible. Their anger could have destroyed them, but their hope in life brought them through. And to me that is the only way to live.

That email will be on its way shortly...

Suz xxx
on Apr 02, 2005
Mick and I are old friends. He was in a band called the Squealing Pygmies, based in Sydney and I was in a band called Twister, based in Canberra. We did a number of shows together in both locations and became friends. My band broke up and he went overseas and, apart from the odd phone call, we hadn't spoken for a number of years. I spoke to him after his Cockatoo Island set, which was a blinder. He was really pleased to see me but obviously very busy. I got a copy of his latest album, he signed it and we agreed to catch up soon. He's not doing so much of the falsetto stuff but he sounds really good. He also has a band called Monkeyboy, a two-peice (a bit of a cliche these days) but apparently they are really good. I'm looking forward to seeing him is this guise as well.

Toni and I have seen good bit of music so far this year, what with the BDO and Cockatoo Island. We only really went to see Gomez. It worked out ticket prices to see Gomez at the Enmore were about five bucks cheapter than Cockatoo, so it was a no brainer. We also got to see a little of Machine Gun Fellatio, and some folky girl whose name escapes me. We saw some of Coda (amazing vocals), then all of Machine Translations, who were just wonderful. We stuck around for a while to see Youth Group and that was pretty much the day.

Getting back to Oz and having to pay a fortune to see people again is going to kill me


T and I get Q magazine and it never ceases to amaze me how cheap it is to see music over your way. I think I'd be out every weekend virtually. Lucky you... How much longer have you got over there?

P.S. SIGNED POSTER? BASTARD!


Hah-hah (Nelson laugh) *giggle*

I'd like to think the reason you don't see anything is because Londoners are enlightened but I think your summation is right. It is probably their stiff upper lip mentality. I take the same view you do, though worded differently. I firmly believe in the Buddhist philosphy of trying to live every moment like it is my last and making sure I will be remembered as a good, honest person. It is hard to live up to it, but I try. Laughing at the ridiculousness of it all helps too.

For me, the worst effect terrorism can have is making people change their lifestyles, clouding their lives in fear and making them second guess everything. By just getting on with things (without being too lax) I think we are doing our best to combat and threat - real or perceived.


Damn this is good, Suz. You have put exactly as I feel about it really succintly. I actually also take this one step further and refuse to acknowledge the negativity this sort of thinking can breed. I don't want to seem insensitive to the concerns of others. I guess I just try and not let their fears get inside me.

They have come to accept that he's gone and that the only way that they can honor his death is by living their lives as fully as possible. Their anger could have destroyed them, but their hope in life brought them through. And to me that is the only way to live.


They sound like a wise family. It would be too easy to stay detached and angry and have everyone around them coddle them because of their loss. I'm so pleased to hear they've accepted it and are moving on with their lives. They are a true example of the deeper human spirit that exists in us all. (Wow, I think my 'your sounding like a hippy' alarm is going off). Anyway, thanks for letting me ramble and I look forward to your email.

Cheers and hugs to you,

Maso
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