The following was originally published in a magazine called Argus. (Check the magazine out at www.argusonline.com.au). The theme of the magazine for the issue was ‘Decisive Moments’. While this article seems to portray something that is anything but decisive, it does actually resolve itself quite nicely. Suffice to say, my beautiful wife was pleasantly surprised when she read it, as I had never told her just how long I’d been a mess around her. I’m still a mess, but at least she loves me....