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Revenge is wrong...
Published on May 9, 2006 By dynamaso In Misc
The new season of Big Brother has been going here now for a few weeks. In the past, my wife and I have taken some guilty pleasure in watching this show. For the most part, I understand that it is a complete farce and at best, road-crash television. But I won’t lie and say I don’t enjoy it either. There is something to be said about this sort of vicariousness and I think I’ve always been a bit of a voyeur, though not strictly in the sexual sense.

Usually the first weeks of the show are tumultuous. Shoving 15 or 16 large personalities into a house together without any of the usual entertainments such as television, music or books, some of these people are bound to clash. When this happens, the first few people nominated for eviction from the house are the ones who have annoyed the other housemates the most. Usually this nomination process doesn’t happen in the first week, mainly to give everyone a chance to get to know each other.

This year was somewhat different. After one week, the housemates were asked to rank each other on who they found the most annoying. Two housemates were then ‘evicted’ from the house, only to be taken into a separate area. Once they were in here, ‘Big Brother’ told them they were in the Revenge Room. They would be given an opportunity to watch the footage of the rest of the housemates to see who voted for them and then would be able to take revenge on select housemates of their choosing. Up until that moment, Big Brother had been, as far as I was concerned, light entertainment at best. In one easy move, for me it turned into something altogether nastier.

Revenge is not a concept I relate to at all. It implies a mentality that doesn’t understand the idea of forgiveness. It implies two wrongs make a right. It implies the idea that revenge will make the avenger feel better. It implies it is okay to carry a grudge. It is destructive, callous and just plain wrong, as far as I’m concerned.

The concept of the Revenge Room is not new to Big Brother. Last year, in the English version of the show, the use of the Revenge Room led to housemates physically attacking each other and to the police being called to the production location by concerned viewers. Instead of leaving well enough alone, the producers of the Australian version decided to do the same here. While the use of the Revenge Room did not have the same results, it did expose the seedy underbelly of shows such as these.

Big Brother, despite what a lot say about it, has a large audience. Major portions of this audience are children. This tasteless addition to the current series is teaching and encouraging children to get their own back for perceived wrongs. It is teaching children is okay to be vengeful, it is okay to hurt someone else because they’ve hurt you and it is perfectly alright to feel good about it. No wonder children particularly are confused about how to behave when there are so many mixed messages out there today.

What say you, JU?


Comments
on May 10, 2006
The Biggest Loser at 7pm is one thing but Big Brother is totally another especially the last few years. It's not even interesting anymore half the people only have a brain between them there's nothing like the diverse personalities of Ben or Chrissie (3) or Tim (5) or Paul & Merlin (4) Everyone is the same and they're all vapid. I prefer Home & Away.
on May 10, 2006
I think you just validated why I dont watch those reality shows.
on May 10, 2006
Wow. I'm with the doc; now I know why I don't watch shows like these. That just seems so mean-spirited and rotten, I can't believe that they'd do that.
on May 10, 2006
Wow. I'm with the doc; now I know why I don't watch shows like these. That just seems so mean-spirited and rotten, I can't believe that they'd do that.
on May 10, 2006
Whoops. Double posteroonie. Sorry my friend!
on May 10, 2006
I am Sally and I am a big brother addict *sigh*

The new series of BB starts here in a week. I am so excited. For some reason I am just drawn to trash tv, I don't know what it is. I actually start to worry about my own mental health as the show goes on, because I reach the point where I am watching them sleep. I have heard a rumour here in England that at some point there will be a swap over with the Aussie BB, and we will send a contestant over, and get one of yours in return. Oooh how exciting, hehe!

Erm anyway....enough of my excitement....one of the reasons I like BB is because the observations you can make about peoples characters. I don't usually enjoy it in the first few weeks. Because there are to many people there, but as the numbers come down, and you really get to see people I enjoy that part. I think that some of the messages it sends to children isn't right, I couldn't agree more. However, these are things that do happen, and happen in everyday life. I think it is up to parents to let their kids know what is right and wrong, and then seeing such things on tv they will be capable of judging themselves.
on May 10, 2006
I have great moments of revenge... in my mind. To actually act on some selfish, momentary satisfaction, and in public no less, is simply something that I cannot fathom. I can't see how any end result would work out favorably.
on May 10, 2006
Trina,

I have never watched even 5 minutes of the biggest loser. I thought the concept was so wrong to start with, I can't begin to tell you. And I agree with you; this year's BB housemates seem to be a bunch of airhead wannabe celebrities who have nothing better to talk about than who'd they 'do' in the house. About the only person with any sort of qualities at all is Michael and I'm not sure his are in any way admirable.

I prefer Home and Away


I don't think I'd go that far but I know what you mean. Thanks for stopping by.

Doc,

I did like some of the earlier seasons because the producers mixed up the sorts of people they let into the house. There have actually been some very cool, intelligent people. This year's crop are nothing short of airheads.

San Chonino,

just seems so mean-spirited and rotten, I can't believe that they'd do that.


My thoughts exactly.

Sally,

I am Sally and I am a big brother addict *sigh*


Toni and I really liked the idea of the show. We'd defend our watching it with our friends, using the line we were interested in the show from a purely sociological point of view (yeah, right). But this year, the fact that all the housemates are, as Trina said, vapid AND with the introduction of the Revenge Room, I've just lost interest big time. Oh, no, maybe I'm growing up... Scary.

I think that some of the messages it sends to children isn't right, I couldn't agree more. However, these are things that do happen, and happen in everyday life. I think it is up to parents to let their kids know what is right and wrong, and then seeing such things on tv they will be capable of judging themselves.


Well said and I couldn't agree more. However, I don't think they needed to introduce this idea to the show. There was enough ill-feeling and arguments occurring to keep the producers happy. And I don't believe it made any difference as far as the audience capture went. In fact, if any of the public felt like I did, they wouldn't have watched.

Nicky,

I have great moments of revenge... in my mind.


As do we all, I believe.

To actually act on some selfish, momentary satisfaction, and in public no less, is simply something that I cannot fathom.{/quote]

These are my thoughts too. What good could possibly come from it?

on May 10, 2006
The only reality show i've watched is Survivors, and i thought it was bad enough. All the dramas and all the clashes. I guess that's what's appealing to a majority of the audience, and the revenge room just makes it more tastier for some i suppose.

I agree that it's just plain wrong, but entertainment doesnt care much about moral values.
on May 10, 2006
entertainment doesnt care much about moral values.


Well said, Em. I agree with you in part but the fact is, this show airs at a time when kids are most likely to be watching. It strikes me as being a very cynical act by the producers to gain further ratings.
on May 11, 2006
Lucky for me my kids have no interest in Reality TV! They've even lost interest in American Idol! My 16 year old does watch America's Next Top Model sometimes. Alas their mom however, does watch Reality Tv! Like Top Chef, and Amazing Race and Dog the Bounty Hunter and Miami Ink, and America's Next Top Model.

What will draw me to a reaility show is the people, and what's going on. If it's too cheesy, I don't watch it. If it's too much drama and revenge mode, not for me. I like some of them for their entertaining value, that's it. And if they happen to be celebrities who I like hearing about, then sometimes I'll take a peek and if it's entertaining I'll watch it til the end.

It does sound like BB is not something children under 14 should be watching though.
on May 11, 2006
Serenity,

I don't mind the idea of reality television so long as there is a clear understanding that the 'reality' bit is completely subjective.

It sounds to me like your kids have some good taste. Must have got it from you, yeah?
on May 11, 2006
I think you just validated why I dont watch those reality shows.


I agree. Gimme, gimme, gimme an old episode of Cheers or The Drew Carey Show (the older ones- before the show got just plain stupid) anyday. I like to laugh. And as for revenge, well, like the Chinese are credited with saying- it's a dish best served cold.
on May 11, 2006
gimme an old episode of Cheers


Or Frasier! Sorry DynaMaso, I am really not into them. Even tho this city is going bonkers over Elliot Yamine.

Give me Stargate anyday! Or Star Trek, Aussie (Ozzie?) style anyday.

I am hopeless! Forgive me my transgressions.
on May 11, 2006
Shovel,

To be quite honest, about the only television I enjoy watching these days is the series 'Lost', along side the occasional rerun of Star Trek or Babylon 5. I try and watch Mythbusters, American Choppers and American Hot Rods, although those obnoxious bike builders and Boyd gives me the shits. Any other viewing I'm doing so I can spend a bit of time with Toni. Its my excuse and I'm sticking to it

Doc,

Pardon my ignorance, but who is Elliot Yamine?

I do like Stargate, but not as much as Trek or Bab5. As I said to Shovel, a lot of my viewing tends to be what my wife likes to watch. I go with it because I like to hang out with her.

This is my excuse and I'm sticking to it. Have a great weekend.